The article is for those boys who need help in talking with girls or when they talk to the girls they stop and get confuse in middle of conversation suddenly. You are not the only one with this problem but there are other boys as well who face such problems. The important of all is that how to overcome this problem?
Here comes the solution for you but you must force yourself to do it to get yourself out of this problem.
Build Your Own Confidence
Girls are attracted towards boys with real confidence. Boys need to learn how to be confident first, but not cocky. It’s all about how you get yourself in the situation and handle it, let her know you are confident enough to have her. Most boys are wimps when it comes to girls. If you show her through your acts that you are confident then she will become more interested in you.
Positive Behavior
Try to talk about only good positive things so she remembers having a not good but wow conversation with you. Also try to avoid any heavy topics such as politics, religion, etc.
Be Little bit Playful and Flirty
Don’t give a girl a direct answer; try to be as vague as possible and playful. If she is interested in you she will ask more questions by herself and you can give her just enough information to keep her guessing.
Start Kidding With Her, But Please Don't Lie
You should at least try to make laugh and kid with her, but don't ever lie. Girls hate it when guys lie to them, and they are excellent at detecting lies. They can remember everything you say when you tell a story and the second time you tell it they know if any parts of the story changed. Be careful
Make Smile
Always look like you are having a good time, even if you are not. If you naturally smile and laugh with other people it makes you look so much better.
Ask Questions Why Not?
Girls love to talk, so let them. The more she talks to you the more it shows she is interested in you. If you let her talk 70% of the time she will like you more. Try to listen to what she says and ask follow up questions on what she has already said.
Don't Tell her you’re Life Story Please
Girls have enough stress in their lives they don't want to be overwhelmed with information and know about your problems and such. Tell her as little as possible about you, if she wants to know she will ask. Even if girls say they want to know everything about you, don't tell them, give them small bits and pieces. Once they find out everything about you, you become less interesting. If she keeps pressing you for more information, just smile and respond (in a confident tone) with prases like "well if you stick around long enough, maybe someday you will find out".
IMPORTANT OF ALL
Keep Phone Conversations Short
If you get a girl's number and you call her (or she calls you), only talk to her long enough to set up a time when you can get together. Do NOT just talk about random stuff, tell her you gotta go and end the conversation short. Its not worth your time and effort talking on the phone so only use it to meet up or set up a date.
I don't think it will work :) try something different... like take interest in girls activities and ask her wat she did whole day :P
ReplyDeleteHahaha :D thanks for your input :)
ReplyDeleteSaira good one :P
ReplyDeleteHahaha :D Look boys find it difficult to talk to girls.. means fault is at your end :P
ReplyDeletehey.. fault is not at our end okay :P yew people are fake then what we can do :(
ReplyDeleteits not like that :P
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